Reclaiming Desire. Restoring connection. Returning to yourself.
Therapy for intimacy, sexuality, and the capacity for pleasure and connection.
About Gray Intimacy
Gray Intimacy is a practice devoted to intimacy as it actually lives in people’s bodies and relationships—not how it’s supposed to look on paper.
This work starts from a simple premise:
desire doesn’t disappear because people are broken or unskilled. It disappears when intimacy becomes unsafe, managed, or overly polite.
Most therapy focuses on communication.
Most sex advice focuses on performance.
Very little work addresses how history, attachment, and the nervous system quietly shape what feels possible between two people.
Gray Intimacy sits there.
Here, intimacy is understood as relational and embodied.
Sex is not treated as a problem to fix.
Love is not treated as a cure for everything else.
This is a space for people who are thoughtful, self-aware, and tired of working so hard at relationships that still feel flat, tense, or distant.
The goal isn’t to try harder.
It’s to create conditions where closeness and desire don’t have to be forced.
Gray Intimacy is guided by Tisha Gray.
Tisha Gray, LMFT, CST
Tisha Gray is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Certified Sex Therapist whose work focuses on intimacy, desire, and relational patterns shaped by trauma, attachment, and the nervous system.
Her approach is relational and somatic, grounded in the belief that intimacy does not change through insight alone. It changes when bodies no longer feel monitored, pressured, or responsible for someone else’s experience.
She works with individuals and couples who are capable, reflective, and often frustrated by patterns of shutdown, longing, or distance that persist despite years of effort and self-understanding.
Rather than focusing on performance or technique, her work attends to how closeness is negotiated, how desire retreats under expectation, and how early relational strategies quietly repeat themselves in adult intimacy.
Gray is less interested in helping people become better partners and more interested in helping them become more honest—with themselves and with each other.
Areas of focus:
Sex and intimacy after trauma
Desire discrepancy and sexual shutdown
Attachment patterns in adult relationships
Couples navigating rupture, betrayal, and repair
Nervous-system–informed intimacy work
Rates
Sex and Relationship Therapy in Las Vegas
In-person in Las Vegas and virtually across Nevada. This is designated for individuals, couples, and families.
Individual sessions 50 mins | $225
Couple sessions 50 mins | $300
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